Joe Manganiello Reacts to Sofía Vergara’s "Narcissistic Man” Post
Sofía Vergara Shares Cryptic Post About a "Narcissist" After Joe Manganiello's Breakup Admission
Joe Manganiello wants fans to form their own opinions.
In what is becoming an increasingly bitter back-and-forth between the True Blood star and his ex-wife Sofía Vergara ahead of the Oct. 13 release of his memoir, Bloodlines, Manganiello addressed Vergara’s recent post about narcissists.
During an appearance on CBS Mornings Oct. 12, Gayle King directly asked Manganiello about a post Vergara’s son Manolo Gonzalez Vergara shared on social media, explaining, “Her son posted a thing about, ‘this is what happens when you deal with a narcissistic man,’ and she liked that post. So, they appear to be saying that basically it's terrible what happened to you, but the bottom line is that you're a narcissist. What do you say to that?”
Manganiello, in response, hopes people withhold judgement until hearing his side of the story.
“I think anybody who said that should read the book first,” he replied, “and understand what the book is actually about because it’s not about that. It’s about the suffering I went through.”
Indeed, Bloodlines details Manganiello's seven-year battle with a mysterious autoimmune disease he thought was going to kill him. During this time, the Magic Mike star’s marriage to the Modern Family actress dissolved.
But at its core, Manganiello says Bloodlines is about “survival and it’s also about hope.”
As for the post in question, Vergara’s 35-year-old son shared a chart that listed characteristics between a “good man” and a “narcissistic man,” which Vergara then reposted to her Instagram Story Oct. 9.
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Below the graphic, the 54-year-old’s son had written, “Remember kids, when dealing with a narcissist, it doesn't matter how much you do for them, because they will resent you for it, and nothing will ever be enough and they'll always somehow try to paint you as the bad guy."
Within the chart, a “good man” was listed as being able to apologize, set boundaries, listen and tell the truth, while the “narcissistic man” lies, gaslights, shifts blame and resents their partner, among other qualities.
The America’s Got Talent judge also reposted a quote to her Story originally shared by Tom Brady which said “the ability to laugh at oneself is probably the highest form of intelligence" while "the inability to laugh at oneself is a sure sign you're dealing with an idiot."
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While Manganiello’s memoir hasn’t hit shelves yet, pre-released excerpts shed some light on his POV as to what allegedly went down behind the scenes between him and Vergara.
Among the excerpts is one in which Manganiello—who got engaged to Caitlin O’Connor in 2025—writes that because of the strain of his illness, his and Vergara’s union became “devoid of any emotionality whatsoever.”
For a look back at Manganiello and Vergara’s relationship before Bloodlines is released, read on.
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Oscar-Worthy Date Night
The A-list couple stun at the 2023 Vanity Fair Oscars Party in Beverly Hills on March 12.
Ciao Bella
Vergara and Manganiello enjoy a romantic getaway to Italy in the summer of 2022.
La Dolce Vita
The two tour the stunning Italian countryside.
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On-Set Support
Vergara gets support from her hubby and son on set during the final day of filming Modern Family in 2020.
The Look of Love
The duo celebrate Valentine's Day 2020 with a sizzling Instagram pic.
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Red Carpet Royalty
Manganiello and Vergara attend the 77th Annual Golden Globe Awards in L.A. in January 2020.
2020 Vision
The duo celebrate New Year's Eve on Dec. 31, 2019.
Instagram / Sofia Vergara
Birthday Babe
The True Blood alum holds his lady tight while celebrating her 47th birthday in July 2019.
I Heart You
The couple shares an adorable photo while celebrating Valentine's Day 2019.
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Hangin' in Hawaii
Vergara presents her other half with The Shooting Star award during the 2019 Maui Film Festival in June 2019 in Wailea, Hawaii.
Trick or Treat?
The famous couple got spooky with Sofia Vergara's son Manolo for Halloween 2018.
Forever Dinner Date
The duo got all dressed up for a night on the town.
Love Like This
We just want to find someone that looks at us like these two look at each other.
Happily Ever After
It's a love story, we're so glad they said YES!
Pretty in Paradise
The couple enjoyed a much needed vacay together.
Crazy in Love
Their love for each other is undeniable!
They Shine Bright Like a Diamond
It's no secret that this Hollywood couple shines in everything they do, especially together.
JOEchella
Sofia Vergara threw her husband the ultimate Coachella-themed 40th Birthday Bash.
You Fancy, Huh?
They are the definition of color-coordinated couple goals.
Perfect for Each Other
According to a source, "They work out together, watch football together, go out to eat and to movies."
Lighting Up Each Other's World
Whether it is the 4th of July or New Years Eve, this happy couple is celebrating together.
Getting Some Vitamin Sea
Not sure what we love more: This beautiful couple or the stunning view behind them.
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Love on Top
"Joe makes Sofia feel like she is the most important woman in the world," says our E! insider.
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Cutest Couple on the Carpet
Why Netflix & chill when you can get dressed up and attend the Solo: A Star Wars Movie premiere together?
Happiest Together
"I've never seen two people so truly in love. The way they talk to each other, touch each other—it's incredible," said a friend of the couple.
Presenting Mr. and Mrs. Manganiello
Sofia Vergara and Joe Manganiello said "I do" on November 21, 2015.
Kisses for the Mrs.
According to a friend of the couple, "She thinks he's gorgeous and sexy and she can't get enough of him. He is the nicest guy in the world and treats her like a queen. He's everything."
He Put a Ring On It
Joe Manganiello popped the question to Sofia Vergara on December 25, 2014.
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Red Carpet Official
Joe Manganiello and Sofia Vergara made their official red carpet debut as a couple at the Star Wars: The Force Awakens world premiere.
Spotted!
The power couple was first confirmed to be dating in July 2014.
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